Well, in today's society, do you see yourself have to make a judgement on looks before really giving a guy a chance? (I'm not sure if that made sense) I feel like most girls now a days would be treated great, but overlook the ones that would treat them right and end up going after the guy that ends up hurting them.
Man, forget today’s society.
I honestly think it’s a piece of shit.
I feel like in this society people are starting to become so small-minded, so close-minded, so ignorant and oblivious to things that are important in this world.
But I DO, give someone a chance if I’m attracted to them, just because I don’t want to waste anyone’s time or lead someone on. I’d rather stick to my preference and keep to myself if that person doesn’t come along rather than getting to know all these other people I might not be attracted to and telling each and every one of them about me all over again, then having it end up with things not working out. That’s just me though.
I ask for a purely honest answer, being someone as beautiful as you and someone who gets the attention from any guy, have you become a bit picky with physical appearance in guys?
Thank you for calling me beautiful; however, I know I get attention but it’s not just from any guy, ya know? If that was the case things would probably be a bit different for me.
But that definitely hasn’t made me picky with the guys I’d prefer to date. And that’s me being totally honest, I believe that personality is key. I know that if I’m really physically attracted to this person it would be even better with their great personality but meeting THAT person just doesn’t happen a lot for everyone.
When I finally meet someone I think is full-on my “type” appearance wise, and I tell like their personality, I just start feeling like I’m not good enough for this person lol like I need to look better so they’d love looking at the sight of me and not these other girls that are waaay better looking lol that sounds kinda bad, I know, but hey, that’s just me. Sorry for the long answer lol
Being a part of this whole generation where people think it’s cool or okay to have “side hoes” or “side niggas” while they’re in a relationship or getting to know someone, just makes me less interested in dating someone.
Because you never know who’s into that stuff or who’s loyal nowadays. People like to toy around with other people’s emotions. That’s just not right to me.
I know I sound kinda depressing on here cause I never post any “happy” posts, that’s just for Twitter, but don’t take it the wrong way.. I just think that this is my little escape where I can let out some of the things that cross my mind. My open diary, kinda.
I was taught to always be strong throughout all the hardships I may encounter in the future, but sometimes I just wanna cry a little cause I feel bad for myself for all the bullshit I go through. But I pick my head up, cause I know there are people out there that have it worse than I do, so I appreciate all that I have in my life.
i dont understand what u are getting out of posing for slutty pics like this. It makes u feel better? Thats how u know you have a terrible life, when u have to go through porn or porn like activities. Usually this happens when you don't have a father figure, which is probably true in your case, or else your father would never let you do this, and you would probably be a decent girl instead of whatever u are right now.
Judgemental. Never judge a book by its cover, my dear. Have a blessed day.
You’ve got to learn to love yourself. Flaws and all. Accept it. Accept yourself. So what if someone doesn’t like something about you, someone else probably loves that about you. Somewhere out there, you’ll find someone who will accept you for who you are and that will only be after YOU decide to love yourself flaws and all. If you’re really bothered by this “flaw” of yours, change it. Change it for yourself though, not because someone pointed it out and made you feel insecure because then you’ll just end up changing everything about yourself whenever someone points out something they don’t like about you. Don’t let them change you and rebuild you into someone you’re not. Be you, be proud to be yourself. There’s no one on this planet that’s just like you.
Have you ever seen brown eyes in the sun? You don’t always notice it at first but you’ll see that ‘brown’ no longer describes them. They melt into golden rays, circling an eclipse. There’s nothing boring about brown eyes, not even when the later hours encroach; they just turn into a sunset of their own.
You're actually perfect the way you are girl, actually better before you started losing weight and toning up 😍 The you of now is great and it caters to the "standards" of the masses. The you of before though was never overweight but there was more to love 😊 it was great to see a girl like you embrace who you are 😁
Thank you, beautiful (: I appreciate that a lot. I just want people to be happy with their size, I don’t want them to fell down because they’re not skinny enough or they’re not “curvy” enough like other girls people would probably try to compare them to. I want them to feel good, they know what looks good and what they would like to change juuuuust for themselves not for anyone else. Your ask, made my day better. (: thank you.
"Big compared to society's idea of skinny" - Amen, God Bless for people like you. That should be the quote of the year. That should be plastered everywhere.
Thank you, haha. But you know, it is true. Soooo many people are asked to change just because most people don’t think they’re good enough for this damn society. It’s crazy, it’s either you’re too skinny or you’re too fat/big. We can’t just be called normal? Everyone is shaped differently, and I’m pretty sure a lot of people would like to look like themselves, not a replica of everyone else. As the years go by, the idea of skinny just shrinks to a size that’s thinner and thinner.